
Relationship investment scams can begin so innocently. You meet a stranger online through social media or a dating app, an investment-related group chat, or even through a wrong number text message. Before you know it, you’re exchanging texts every day. You might be “love bombed” with frequent messages, calls, or develop a non-romantic relationship. But you never see each other in person. Your new friend is rich, attractive, travels, and likes everything you do. How did they become so wealthy? By investing in cryptocurrency, gold, or foreign currency they’ll show you how to do it too.
Once you invest on their recommended app, you will see charts that indicate your investment is earning huge returns. And when you want to withdraw your money, you can’t, and you can’t reach your new online “friend” — your money is gone. Your money was never invested. The app and the huge returns you saw were all fake. These devastating scams, called relationship investment scams or romance scams, and often referred to as pig butchering by the perpetrators, leave investors brokenhearted and bankrupt. Investors are losing billions of dollars to the scams globally each year.
Relationship investment scams can happen to anyone. Scammers target a wide range of people of various ages, education levels, and professions.
Scammers try to lure individuals into their scams with promises of friendship or love. People who live alone or spend a lot of time on social media or in discussion groups tend to be more vulnerable to fraud. Be on high alert if you are widowed, divorced, or living away from family and friends. And become a fraud fighter by sharing this information with anyone you know who is in the same stage of life. They are prime targets for scammers.
These scams work on all types of people because they appeal to unmet needs or emotions, like financial stress, future hopes and dreams, excitement, or fear.
- The relationship moves too fast: They declare strong feelings very early on, often before meeting in person.
- They avoid meeting in person: There's always an excuse – they're overseas, working a lot, busy with family, in the military, on an oil rig, their internet is bad, etc.
- They may avoid video calls: If they do video call, often AI is used to create look-alike, realistic video.
- They want to move conversations from a dating app or social media site to an encrypted text messaging app: Some dating apps have message filters that can identify harmful or illegal behavior, so scammers prefer to communicate via text messages.
- They ask for money or talk about investments: This is the biggest red flag. A legitimate love interest won't ask you for money, especially for an "investment opportunity," early in the relationship.
- They promise high returns with little to no risk: If it sounds too good to be true, it almost always is. Legitimate investments carry risk.
- They pressure you to act quickly: They'll create a sense of urgency, saying you'll miss out if you don't invest now.
- They want you to use a specific, often unknown, trading platform: They'll guide you to a platform you've never heard of, where your "investments" will appear to grow rapidly, encouraging you to put in more and more money.
- They are reluctant to let you withdraw money: When you try to withdraw your "profits," there will suddenly be technical problems, or unexpected taxes and fees you need to pay first.
- They try to isolate you: They may discourage you from discussing the "investment" with friends or family.
- Ignore text messages from senders you don’t know. Instead, delete, block, and report these messages.
- Don’t make investment decisions based on the advice of someone who makes unsolicited contact with you online or through an app or text message.
- Research investment opportunities thoroughly and ask questions.
- Protect information relating to your personal finances and identity. Don’t share it with someone who contacts you online, on a social media platform, or through text message.
- Never download any suspicious software or apps. These can remotely control your device and may steal your money or use your information for further fraud.
- Never pay money to recover your investment or make an upfront payment to release funds.
- If you suspect you are in a relationship investment scam, stop communicating with the individuals immediately and don't give them any more money.
- Talk about relationship investment scams, crypto scams, and other scams you hear about with friends and family. This raises awareness, reduces the stigma of victimization, and can encourage reporting.
- Listen for warning signs, like a friend or relative talking about a new online relationship or investing in crypto for the first time.
- Host a fraud prevention event in your community.
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Angola:
- Comissão do Mercado de Capitais (CMC)
- For complaints: https://www.cmc.ao/pt-pt/reclamacoes
- To file a report: https://www.cmc.ao/pt-pt/denuncias
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Brazil:
- Brazilian Securities Commission (CVM)
- CVM's Office of Investor Support: 0800-025-9666 (Weekdays, 8 a.m.–8 p.m.)
- State Public Prosecutor’s Office: https://www.cnpg.org.br/index.php/ministerios-publicos-dos-estados
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Canada - All:
- Contact information for each Province and Territory in Canada’s security regulator: https://www.securities-administrators.ca/about/contact-us/
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Canada - Ontario
- Ontario Securities Commission (OSC)
- Email: inquiries@osc.gov.on.ca
- Webform: https://portal.osc.ca/efilings/contactus-page1
- Tel.: 416-593-8314 (local) or 1-877-785-1555 (toll-free)
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Canada - Quebec
- Autorité des marchés financiers (AMF)
- (French): Victime d’une fraude
- (English): Victim of fraud
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Chinese Taipei:
- Financial Supervisory Commission (FSC)
- 165 Police Anti-Fraud Website: https://165.npa.gov.tw
- FSC Complaint Email Service: https://fscmail.fsc.gov.tw/pop30
- Anti-Fraud Consultation Hotline provided by securities and futures related institutions +886-2-2737-3434
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France:
- Autorité des marchés financiers (AMF) https://www.amf-france.org/fr/espace-epargnants/lamf-et-vous/epargne-info-service
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Hong Kong - China:
- Securities and Futures Commission (SFC)
- Online Complaint Form
- Report to the Hong Kong Police Force – Anti-Deception Coordination Centre, Hong Kong Police Force, Anti-Scam Helpline: 18222
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Israel:
- Israel Securities Authority (ISA) https://www.investors.isa.gov.il/nav-index/nav-bar/direct-line?nav_node=menu-612dd85408efc
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Italy:
- Commissione Nazionale per le Società e la Borsa (CONSOB) Suspected scams can be reported through CONSOB’s official channels; support is provided by the Public Relations Office and the Investor Protection Office; updates are published in the Beware of Scams section
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Jersey - Channel Islands:
- If you think you have been targeted by a scam or fallen victim of any type of fraud, contact the States of Jersey Police call (01534) 612612
- Visit Police Headquarters
- For more information visit fraudprevention.je
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Luxembourg:
- Commission de Surveillance du Secteur Financier (CSSF)
- Stay informed with official warnings
You can find updates about scams and fraud alerts on the CSSF website: https://www.cssf.lu/en/publication-data/?content_type=617 - Learn more about fraud prevention and financial safety: Letzfin, the CSSF’s education platform, offers practical tips to protect yourself:
https://www.letzfin.lu/categorie/?category=precautions-a-prendre - Report cyber fraud or get help Visit Luxembourg’s dedicated cybercrime platform:
https://www.cyberfraud.lu
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Malaysia:
- Securities Commission Malaysia (SC)
- National Scam Response Centre (Tel: 997)
- Securities Commission Malaysia (Tel:+603-62048999), or email: aduan@seccom.com.my
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México:
- Comisión Nacional Bancaria y de Valores (CNBV)
- You can report complaints to the National Commission for the Protection and Defense of Financial Services Users (CONDUSEF) through the Electronic Complaints Portal https://tramites.condusef.gob.mx/QuejaElectronica/registro.php?ban=true
- Phones: 01 800 999 80 80 or 55 53400999 (Mexico City)
- For complaints, contact the Specialized User Service Unit (UNE) corresponding to the financial institution involved. Contact details can be found in the Investment Services Guide published on each institution's website.
- Report frauds to the General Attorney of the Republic (FGR) or to your local prosecutor's office
- If fraud occurred over the internet report to the Cyber Police Unit
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Netherlands:
- Authority for the Financial Markets (AFM) https://www.afm.nl/nl-nl/contact/contactformulier-consumenten
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Singapore:
- File an official police report if you have fallen for a scam: https://eservices1.police.gov.sg/phub/eservices/landingpage/police-report
- Report an encounter with a potential scam through ScamShield: https://www.scamshield.gov.sg/submit-a-scam-report/
- Unsure if something is a scam? Call and check with the 24/7 ScamShield Helpline at 1799: https://www.scamshield.gov.sg/scamshield-helpline/
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South Africa:
- Financial Sector Conduct Authority (FSCA) As South Africa’s financial services regulator, the FSCA is your first line of defense. If the scam involved a financial product, even a fake one, the FSCA plays a critical role. Verify legitimacy: Check whether an entity or individual is authorised via www.fsca.co.za Report suspicious activity: 0800 110 443 Report (possible) Fraud & Ethics Anonymously via email: fsca@behonest.co.za
- South African Police Service (SAPS) Report the crime at your nearest police station. Provide all evidence you've gathered — emails, screenshots, transaction records. They will open a case number, which is essential for any legal or recovery processes
- Southern African Fraud Prevention Service (SAFPS) SAFPS offers a free fraud-reporting platform called Yima, which connects directly with banks, retailers, and insurers. They also provide tools to secure your identity and scan websites for scam risks. Visit: www.safps.org.za/www.yima.org.za Scam hotline: 083 123 7226
- Your Bank’s Fraud Department Immediately notify your bank’s fraud team and cooperate with their investigation process. They may assist in recovering funds or preventing further losses
- The Online Platform Where You Met the Scammer If the scam originated on a dating app, social media, or marketplace. Report the profile or listing to the platform. This helps remove fraudulent accounts and protects other users.
- Credit Bureaus Financial scams can damage your credit profile. If your identity or finances were compromised, report it to a credit bureau Visit www.cba.co.za and monitor your credit status
- Scams thrive on silence and confusion. By acting quickly and reporting to the right channels, you not only protect yourself, but you also help prevent others from falling victim too
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Spain:
- Comisión Nacional del Mercado de Valores (CNMV)
- Contact CNMV’s investor’s helpline (900 535 015)
- File an enquiry through CNMV’s website
- File a complaint through CNMV’s Complaints
- Report to Policía Nacional, Guardia Civil or your local police
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Sweden:
- Swedish Financial Supervisory Authority / Finansinspektionen (FI) https://www.fi.se/en/
- We're open Monday, Wednesday and Thursday 9:00AM–11:00AM
- +46 (0)8 408 980 00; finansinspektionen@fi.se
- Use the Company register to find out if a firm is authorised
- For the police, victims can go to: https://polisen.se/en/
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Thailand:
- Securities and Exchange Commission (SEC): Hotline 1207 press 22, email: scamalert@sec.or.th, website: www.sec.or.th/scamalert
- Report to the Anti-Online Scam Operation Center (AOC): call 1441, website: www.thaipoliceonline.go.th
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Türkiye:
- Capital Markets Board of Türkiye (CBM)
- Telephone: +90 (312) 292 90 90
- Faximile: +90 (312) 292 90 00
- Mail: Mustafa Kemal Mahallesi, Dumlupinar Bulvari (Eskisehir Yolu) 8. km No:156, 06530, Çankaya/ANKARA
- Application for access to information and/or complaints: https://www.cimer.gov.tr
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United Kingdom:
- Financial Conduct Authority (FCA)
- FCA website: Report a scam | FCA
- Open Monday to Friday, 8am to 6pm and Saturday 9am to 1pm
- 0800 111 6768 (freephone), 0300 500 8082 from the UK, +44 207 066 1000 from abroad
- Use the FCA Firm Checker to find out if a firm is authorised and has permission for the service it's offering you.
- For the police, victims can go to: Action Fraud, 0300 123 2040 (Mon–Fri 8am–8pm)
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United States:
- Securities and Exchange Commission (SEC)
- Report to the FBI: https://www.ic3.gov
- Report to the CFTC: https://www.cftc.gov/complaint